Thursday, September 25, 2014

How Respect is Seen at Flowery Branch HapKiDo

Writing Contributor: Christie McGowan
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If not for respect, and if everyone instead acted on self-preferences, the world would be in constant chaos. Just imagine it – a world lacking respect would result everyone being more careless and less trustworthy. People wouldn’t care about others so much, and people would be greedier because gratitude would also not exist.

The effects of respect—showing gratitude, trust, and sensitivity towards others—allows peace to be possible. For example, respect between the bond of parent and child allows both sides to grow positively. If the child shows respect towards parent, it means he/she understands the purposes for parents. From years of receiving shelter and love, children grow up with gratitude and try to show it—if not from listening and obeying, then definitely through holidays and birthdays. If children show respect, then parents will also have respect for them. So, for there to be peace, everyone has to be on the same page.

At Choe's HapKiDo in Flowery Branch, we care to influence respect to our students. Through practices of different styles of bowing and attentive listening, HapKiDo students carry the principles of respect into other areas of their lives: home, school, work, and social events. And eventually, they realize that they have also gained respect from their surrounding peers.

For more information on Choe’s HapKiDo in Flowery Branch, visit: http://www.braseltonmartialarts.com/index.php.


Thursday, September 18, 2014

Self-Discipline Gives You More Control



It’s the little things that we miss
[Ignoring mom and eating more than 2 cookies
Buying something you didn’t plan on
Having a mean comment put you in a bad mood
Getting onto Facebook too often during study hours
Letting self to not finish a book]

Before they escalate.
[Consuming an entire plate even though full
Having a closet full of unused and old stuff
Pushing over your brother because he hit you first
Lacking the ability to concentrate
Dismissing a goal]

But with a little self-discipline,
[Watching your portions
Making effort to give and save
Calming down
Avoiding distractions
Pushing through]

You happily accept the consequences!
[Looking good
Being good
Feeling good
Clapping good
Mighty good]

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Self-discipline is the key when training at Choe's HapKiDo in Flowery Branch. Students learn to tackle all situations with perseverance, decision making, and good attitude. Watch your child grow within a year’s worth training. You’ll notice a big change in your child’s stride.

For more information, visit: http://choeshapkido.com/flowery-branch/.

-By: Christie McGowan-

Friday, September 5, 2014

Flowery Branch HapKiDo Karate Teaches Confidence

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The truth about lack-of-confidence is that it has no age limit; it is a feeling that both children and adults relate to. At Choe’s HapKiDo in Flowery Branch, we understand that the reasons for lack of confidence are endless, but they are reasonable: the feeling of inadequacy compared to others; a history of negative feedback; the fear of being wrong; the idea of set-limitations. Our martial art program is developed to show students how to grow in confidence.

The Outcomes of Confidence:

SELF-ESTEEM BOOST. From day to day training, HapKiDo instructors make sure a student knows when something is done right. Through hard work and a positive attitude, students experience the feeling of being correct. And after one technique is conquered, students find energy to keep at it.

REALIZED POTENTIAL. The best part of watching progression in the training studio is when the student realizes it. It is like suddenly, a light bulb flashes and he/she witnesses the growth. Maybe an increase in strength is noticed, or a kick is flawless. But regardless, seeing the changes influences the want to do more.

NEW FOUND INDEPENDENCE. The instructors train students every step of the way until they believe he/she is ready for the next belt test. The belt tests allow students to perform independently. And after a new belt is achieved, it is understood that it was earned.

Although confidence can result in cockiness and false-pride, consistent training results in the students developing confidence in a healthy way. From being corrected on technique and etiquette, students learn that perfection comes from listening to advice and persevering to try again and again.
For more information about Choe’s HapKiDo in Flowery Branch, visit: http://www.braseltonmartialarts.com/index.php

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Writing Contributor: Christie McGowan 






Monday, August 18, 2014

Kickboxing Dacula FIghting Depression



“Kickboxing and Boxing Improved My Mental Health”  www.empowerher.com ; written by Rheyanne Weaver

This past week the world mourned Robin Williams and became a little more aware of depression and mental illness.  The subject is “trending” and almost every other facebook post is a quote from the famous comedian/ actor.  My guess is that people are asking, “How could someone so funny and full of life be that desperate?”  The answer may be that mental illness is just that~ an illness.  Like any other illness, cardiovascular exercise can improve symptoms.  This month, in honor of Robin, I researched how kickboxing can improve mental health. 
The article I read is written by a kickboxing student who found that through kickboxing, she felt relief of depression and anxiety.  She cites that she not only feels better about herself, but has benefited from less overall physical health problems through kickboxing.  Punching and kicking is a great way to relieve negative emotions such as anger, frustration, irritability, stress in a healthy, positive outlet.  Losing weight and gaining physical strength is an added bonus.  Instead of a downward spiral common with negative thinking and depression, kickboxing gives a mental boost and builds confidence.  It also fuels motivation which counteracts depression.  Each class gives a sense of accomplishment as well as being fun.  Both are good for fighting mental illness.  Learning new skills and meeting new people are also benefits of kickboxing.  By learning new skills, a student is exercising their mind~ occupying it with something positive.  Being a part of a class provides the opportunity to socialize/ build relationships that also counteract the loneliness and isolation associated with depression. 
The author, a woman, also cites that by doing a traditionally “masculine” workout, she is empowered and feels strong and able to defend herself.  Again, this counteracts feelings of helplessness.  Having a trainer to encourage and push her, gave her very satisfying results. 
Although I was saddened to hear of Robin Williams' struggles, I think it can be an opportunity to take a serious look at safeguarding mental health.  Sometimes, we can get too focused on losing weight or another physical goal.  It is important to be aware of one’s own mental health and taking care of it.  Kickboxing has so many benefits~ It’s good for body, mind and soul.  Most people are aware that exercise lowers blood pressure and is good for arthritis and diabetes.  The cardiovascular benefits in kickboxing are also that feel-good chemicals are released in the brain.  For those suffering from anxiety and depression, kickboxing can be a healthy alternative for coping.  Instead of retreating into self, kickboxing class is an opportunity to socialize with others.  It’s also a distraction that stops the cycle of negative thinking for a time. 
The calming effect after kickboxing is felt throughout the day; enabling a person to think and process more clearly.  This month, I’m choosing to honor Robin Williams' memory by having this awareness. 

Written By: Kerry Carron Kickboxing Instructor

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7380 Spout Springs Rd
Flowery Branch, Braselton, Buford, Hamilton Mill 30542
(770) 967-1700

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Weight Control and Food Strugles Dacula 30542



This month, I’ve picked up a fun biography/ cookbook called, “French Women Don’t Get Fat~ The Secret of Eating for Pleasure.”  Before you cut me off and dismiss me immediately for the apparent Anti-American sentiment, please let me explain.  I love to cook.  I love food.  It’s deeply engrained in my culture and identity.  This love of cooking and food doesn’t always match up well with health and wellness.  I thoroughly enjoyed this book,  not only for the story of a Franco-American woman living in New York and her struggles with food/ weight, but for her no-nonsense, pragmatic approach to food, eating and pleasure.
Mireille Guiliano, the author of “French Women Don’t Get Fat”, tells her own story of growing up in rural France, her time as an exchange student in America, and being married/ living in the United States.  As she tells her story of weight gain, “recasting” as she calls it, and stabilization, she offers several wonderful recipes throughout the book.  There were several points that impressed upon me~
First, we as Americans don’t eat well.  We eat more.  We eat in our cars, on the go, in front of the TV, standing in the kitchen, at our desk, etc.  Portion size is way too big as we eat so fast on the go that we don’t give our bodies time to realize we are full or satisfied.  We’ve lost the art of dining with real napkins, silverware, conversation, and most importantly, time.  We eat fruit and vegetables off-season and/ or so processed that they are hardly recognizable and devoid of their intended flavor. 
What I like most about this book is that she recommends a very simple alteration in the way we view food, eating and health.  Small changes are what she advocates.  Being intentional and aware of what passes our lips is key.  The first phase is about journaling our eating habits.  This is an essential component of any weight control program.  Food diaries are a cornerstone of Weight Watchers.  After about three weeks of jotting down what a person is consuming, it becomes very obvious what our “offenders” are~ the habits we have that are causing us to gain weight/ be unhealthy.  For example, if we are having bread with every meal, cut back to one meal per day.  During the “recasting” phase, Mireille recommends common sense things like increasing water intake, cutting back (but not deprivation) of some of our “offenders”, eating more fruits and vegetables, taking time/ care in shopping, cooking and eating our food.  Using a food scale to be aware of healthy portion size is also recommended.  The stabilization or life phase is simply about compensating for what we eat and how active we are.  It’s about balance.  No deprivation, binge eating, starving, or elimination diet here.  This book is just full of practical ideas to slowly adjust the way we think about and approach food and eating. 
I recommend this book for anyone who loves food and/ or cooking and has at one time or another felt deprived of enjoying it.  As I am on a path to health and wellness, I found this book simple but profound in its ‘middle of the road’ approach to eating.  For myself, being aware and present as I am cooking and eating is something I want to strive for.  Experimenting with fresh ingredients, frequenting my local farmer’s market, and trying new recipes are something I look forward to.  Balancing exercise with good eating is just good sense.  
Written by: Kerry Caron (kickboxing Instructor)




 Choe's HapKiDo Karate of Flowery Branch
7380 Spout Springs Rd
Flowery Branch, Braselton, Buford, Hamilton Mill 30542